It often begins with something small. A video plays out loud on public transport. A priority seat stays occupied while an elderly person stands nearby. A sidewalk overflows with people who make no room for others. Today, such moments are far from rare; people encounter them regularly in daily life. Some may feel a moment of discomfort, while others choose to ignore it and move on. Altogether, these scenes point to a single truth: consideration — once the quiet foundation of everyday life — is slowly disappearing. In contemporary society, everything moves at a relentless pace. People are always in a hurry, growing ever more protective of their own time and personal space. Days feel packed, and pauses feel like luxuries only a few can afford. In a world that values speed and efficiency foremost, there is little room left for self-reflection, and even less for seeing through another’s eyes. Rather than tolerating inconvenience, many seek to minimize their own discomfort or loss. As a result, consideration is no longer seen as something we ought to practice, but as a nice gesture — commendable, yet optional.
However, should it really be this way? Simple acts — holding the door, stepping aside, or offering a kind and sincere word — can significantly ease the weight of someone’s day. These gestures cost nothing, take little time, and yet carry lasting power. While these gestures may seem trivial to some, they can serve as quiet encouragement that help others through difficult times. Ironically, such fundamental behaviors are now celebrated as heartwarming stories on social media, treated as rare and extraordinary. Posts of someone returning a lost wallet or helping a stranger are receiving praise — not because these acts are remarkable, but because they have become rare. This reveals a deeper problem: we are living in a society that is slowly becoming emotionally desolate.
Consideration is neither reserved for the weak nor something that can be imposed as a duty. Rather, it is a question we ask ourselves, “What kind of person do I want to be?” And the answer is found not in words, but in actions. A heart that chooses to care for others eventually shapes how we live our own lives. Therefore, Kingos, ask yourself — who do you aspire to be? It does not take much to be considerate. It is often found in the smallest of choices — yielding a seat, offering a reassuring glance, or setting aside time for someone. These acts may not draw attention, but they carry emotional weight. When such actions ripple from person to person, the world becomes a little brighter, a little warmer. Perhaps, true change begins with a small and sincere thought — not loud or grand, but enough to warm the world, one moment at a time.